I love dogs but I don’t have a dog at the moment, I just pet sit when I can. My parents are on a cruise so I’m watching their sweet miniature schnauzer for three weeks. I know that if I had a dog I would rearrange my whole life around them, which is why I’m waiting a while. That’s also why I could relate to The Today Show’s Natalie Morales’s long essay about how dogs have been a staple in her life, and how she’s gone out of her way to make their lives special and easier. She’s not bragging about it or acting like it’s a big deal, she’s just telling it like it is. She describes all the ways that dogs have made her life better and it’s clear she wants to reciprocate. Natalie describes the dogs in her life and what they’ve meant to her. She calls them her dog “soulmates!” Here’s some of what she wrote about her current dog, and there’s much more there about her lifetime of companions. She has had all rescue dogs. Her current dog was featured on a pet adoption segment of The Today Show in 2012 and Natalie knew she had to take her home the moment she saw her. She has been married 20 years and has two sons, Josh, 14, and Luke, 9.
As fate would have it, I met Zara. Again, I felt like she chose me. She was a rescue dog at North Shore Animal League in Long Island, New York, and happened to be on the TODAY Show one day for a pet segment. She was there with another dog, who seemed nervous and was yapping constantly. Zara was calm and sweet, licking me and pawing at my hand for me to pay attention to her.
I was told she was about a year old. She was the most beautiful dog I had ever seen; a blond and brown border collie mix with caramel eyes and the sweetest disposition. It was love at first sight I think for the both of us. The people at North Shore told me Zara had been brought up North from a kill shelter in Georgia, which broke my heart even more to think who could possibly give up such an incredible animal. I knew she was meant to be a part of my family and immediately called home. My husband was a little hesitant at first, but once he saw the video I sent him of her, he was convinced she belonged with us. The day we picked her up at the shelter was almost as joyous as the days I brought home my boys from the hospital. Josh was 9 years old and Luke was 4, and Zara became the instant third member of our family.
As Zara and the boys continue to grow, I see how much confidence she has also given them as well as a sense of empathy and love for all living creatures. Zara sleeps by Josh’s side every night and is happiest when she is walking the boys to and from the school bus. She has gone everywhere with us and has helped ease their fears during our recent transition of moving to California from Hoboken, New Jersey. When we moved out to California, we drove cross country with Zara because we did not want to have to fly her as we thought it would be too stressful.
She is such a great traveler and would just lay next to the boys in the back seat waiting for the next stop and adventure. The other day, while Luke was sitting on the couch petting Zara, who was sandwiched in between us, he turned to me and said, “Mom, Zara completed our family.” I could not agree more. They say most rescues never forget and are so grateful to be rescued. I believe that wholeheartedly … but more than anything, we are so grateful she rescued us in her own way.
I’m not crying, you’re crying. Natalie wrote so poignantly about the joy, love and stability dogs have brought to her and her family. With all the stories of dogs dying on planes and being routed far from home, it was smart just to drive and avoid all that. She valued her dog’s life over her family’s comfort. Her family took several days and countless more hours to make a trip just so their dog, who they consider a family member, would be ok. Imagine if all pet owners were this thoughtful and caring. We wouldn’t have a fraction as many dog shelters or abandoned animals. People would be looking to adopt pets whose owners couldn’t care for them, and they would cherish their pets for as long as they’re able.
photos credit: Instagram/Natalie Morales and WENN